Especially one that divorced you
She didn't initiate the divorce, I did?
She got offered a position in Tokyo, and I didn't really want to go, so we just decided to cut our losses, do our own thing, and if we were still as close later on down the line as we were when we spent basically every waking minute together (and we're still pretty darn close, I don't think either of us ever stopped loving one another) then we'd just do it all over again.
Nothing wrong with choosing different paths in life, a lot of shit can change, and like many people have said, getting married that young was a big part of it. There were no hard feelings between us or
anything, it was more like "I really want to do this, and I know you want to do that, so it's all good." I'd say we handled it like adults despite the naivety that it blossomed from. I still love the SHIT out of her and if she were to come back to the States I'd almost assuredly move back to Orlando if only to be close. She's my best friend, and as someone with pretty blatant Asperger's, it's generally very hard for me to feel feels correctly, but I know
exactly how I feel about Natalie, and that's so worth the nonsense we went through for me.
